Sister Paula (Mary Lorraine) Hagen, OSB was Prioress of St. Paul’s Monastery from 2014-2019. She was born into a devout Catholic family in Bird Island, Minnesota, a small town (population 959) in Renville County. Her grandfather, Frank Hagen, was a German immigrant who became a successful farmer and raised livestock. Sister Paula and her brothers would help her grandfather and father, Al, in the fields. Her mother, Mary Catherine “Kay,” was a gifted pianist with an associate’s degree in music who became the choir director at St. Mary’s Catholic Church. Both of Paula’s parents were involved in the country school, local 4-H Club and were respected members of the parish. They prayed the Rosary together as a family on a regular basis, instilling in Paula a deep devotion to Mary and Jesus from an early age.
Sister Paula as newborn suffered from a serious urologic condition. Her mother was up with her during many nights to make sure she was thriving. The doctor was shocked when baby Lorraine lived through this health crisis and improved, due entirely to her mother’s constant care and vigilance, along with many prayers. She grew up as a healthy, happy child on the farm, and enjoyed playing with her two brothers and three sisters.
Sister Paula was Valedictorian of her high school class in 1955. She attended the College of St. Catherine in St. Paul on a four-year scholarship and studied Occupational Therapy. This was a needed career at the time, due to the polio epidemic. During her freshman year, she and her best friend, Carol, took a History 101 course where their professor was very interested in Benedictine monasteries in Europe and taught his students about Benedictine history and impact on European art and culture. Paula asked one of the Sisters on campus if there were any Benedictine monasteries in the Twin Cities area. They were well aware of Saint John’s Abbey in Collegeville, but she told them about St. Paul’s Priory, located at 301 Summit Avenue in St. Paul. One Sunday afternoon, she and Carol took the bus to visit the Priory, after calling in advance to make an appointment. They were told to ask for Mother Marcelline.
St. Paul’s Priory—301 Summit Avenue
When the girls arrived and recorded their addresses in the visitors’ log, Mother Marcelline took them to the back porch, which was a “very cozy place” to visit and enjoy some ice cream. In the middle of the now-famous Red Stairs, Mother Marcelline showed the girls an architect’s elaborate plan for the future vision of St. Paul’s Priory which included a new Monastery building, and a junior college and high school located on a campus in Maplewood, MN. Paula was very impressed with the wisdom behind this great endeavor of planning ahead. “I knew these Sisters were going to accomplish something,” she said.
The following summer, at age 19, Paula got a job at the Charles T. Miller Hospital working in occupational therapy. She received a formal invitation in the mail from St. Paul’s Priory to attend a First Profession and Final Profession of Vows Ceremony at the Cathedral of Saint Paul. She was given a paid day off work to attend the ceremony by her supervisor, a colleague from St. Catherine’s. Paula took the bus to the Cathedral and remembers being very moved by the beauty and drama of the liturgy. The novices making their First Profession each knelt before the Archbishop and were given their new name and a blessing. There was also the ritual of the tonsure: the Prioress held the Sister’s hair and the Archbishop “lopped it off” with a scissors. Each Sister went back to the sacristy to meet her sponsor, who helped her put on the new veil and habit. “It was so public,” Paula remembers. “It was a very public display of their commitment to God and the monastic community.”
Sisters making their Final Vows laid prostate in silence on the marble floor of Cathedral. Then, the bells started tolling. A funeral pall was pulled over them, weighted down on four corners with lit candles, as the liturgy was chanted in Latin. “We understood that they were giving up their former life and rising to a new life,” Paula said. The sung words of liturgy included: Arise, for you have been called to a new life. These Sisters, called Juniors, now wore the full habit and a lovely floral wreath on their heads. They were told by the Archbishop: You will never receive a crown of glory in this world, but you will in the next. Paula, extremely impressed with everything she had witnessed, was invited to attend the reception afterward at the Priory at 301 Summit Avenue. “I said, I’ll stop by. I didn’t want to be implicated. But I was so impressed. Wow.”
“How did they know that God wanted them? That was my big question. The novices (‘white veils’) had spent a year in discernment. The other Sisters making Final Vows had spent 3-5 years in formation. So it wasn’t as overwhelming for them as it was for me.”
Paula arrived at the Priory that afternoon to attend the reception. She remembers walking up the driveway on a summer day in July, and hearing the Sisters singing through the open windows as they were doing the dishes. One of these voices belonged to Sister Virginia Matter. “They were singing away. The young Sisters were playing games outside with the children. It was such a happy, joyful place!” There seem to be echoes of this joy even today at 301 Summit when one visits or walks by, pausing to imagine the Sisters on the lawn sixty years ago or sitting on the porch, as the fragrant hydrangeas and still-lush peonies bloom against the house.
Period of Discernment
That summer, Paula rented an apartment across the street from the Cathedral in the women’s housing recommended by St. Catherine’s and started going to morning Mass each day before work. The perplexing question kept running through her mind: How would you know that God is calling you? In her work at the hospital, a medical student asked her to wear his fraternity pin. She declined. She had a scholarship to continue her studies for the next four years in occupational therapy and had no intention of making such a commitment.
After Mass each morning, she would stop at the shrine to St. Anne, mother of Mary and patron saint of unmarried women. Paula began to pray for guidance: was she called to be a bride through holy matrimony, or a bride of Christ? She said a novena to St. Anne, asking for a sign. “If God was calling me, I would never say no. I had all this negotiation with St. Anne. I said, you have to be more specific. Is this a yes or a no?” She even bargained with her and promised to become Sister Anne if she would just send a clear sign. Paula visited the chapel at the hospital at work on her lunch breaks and stayed faithful to God all throughout the day. She continued to say ‘yes’ in her heart to whatever God called her to do. She then became convinced that she should give religious life a try, knowing she could leave if she was unhappy. “I knew that if it was God’s will for me, I would be happy. I wouldn’t want to tell my children that I thought God had invited me to be a Sister, but I didn’t have the courage to do it.”
Saying Yes—First Vows
Paula’s four-year scholarship at St. Catherine’s was held for her for a year while she made her first vows in September with the Sisters of Saint Benedict at St. Paul’s Priory. Her mother expressed concern since she knew her daughter was very independent. Her father had a harder time accepting Paula’s decision and could not bring himself to take her to the convent. He eventually became resigned to the fact that Paula wished to become a Sister and finally accepted it because Paula was so happy.
“Wisdom, without a doubt, was something inside my thought process,” Sister Paula says. “I didn’t know what the virtue meant at the time. Was this going to be wise decision? It certainly has been. I’ve had a very happy life. Not that it has always been easy.”
Sister Paula began a year of formation at the Priory and learned that the Rule of Saint Benedict was part of the Wisdom literature. She especially enjoyed Sister Luanne Meagher’s lively teaching on Old Testament scripture. Paula and Sister Virginia Matter later become known as Sister Marcelline’s favorites. “We had her back,” Paula said.
Sister Paula made her Final Profession of Vows on July 11, 1958 at the Cathedral of St. Paul. She was now one of the young nuns lying face down on the cool, intricately patterned Italian marble floor of the Cathedral, ready to give herself completely to God. She was not able to choose the name Anne since it was already taken. Instead, she chose Paula (with a special secret “a” for Anne) due to her long standing fascination and study of Saint Paul.
A Golden Opportunity
As a new Sister, Paula appreciated being allowed to use her creative abilities in new situations. For her first assignment, she was asked to return to the College of St. Catherine to continue her education. Her second assignment was at the home and hospital in Winstead, MN to bring occupational therapy to the patients there followed by an assignment at St. Therese in New Hope. This was “a golden opportunity” for a young occupational therapist to help design a new care facility, along with Sister Marcelline and Sister Virginia Matter. Subsequently, Paula was assigned to St. Joseph’s Home for Children where she could see the handicapped children “come alive” and make progress as they completed daily projects and activities. “The children were happy with themselves,” Paula recalls. “This made me happy, like a mother.”
Summer Recreation—1960s
Sister Paula was invited to assist one local parish with occupational/ creative activities for a large confirmation class, where she instructed 30 boys and girls in creating clay medallions depicting a symbol of their soul, and writing letters to the Holy Spirit asking for help in identifying their own unique gifts and using these gifts in service to others. Sister Paula met two boys in this class, who introduced her to their parents. In appreciation, the family invited Paula to spend a day at their cabin, where she tried waterskiing for the first time. This event has become a highlight, since Sister Paula, who was in great shape from her daily routine of walking the Monastery campus, put on the water skis and shocked everyone by expertly skiing around the entire lake, even though she had never waterskied before in her life!
The next summer at Sister Paula’s annual family reunion near Wilmar, an uncle brought his boat to Nest Lake to teach her brothers and sisters and cousins how to waterski. Jokingly, they invited Paula to give it a try. She put on the skis and again made it all the way around the lake, astonishing the whole family. Everyone was surprised by Sister Paula’s natural ability at waterskiing. Learning this sport has become a fond summer memory for Sister Paula and her family, albeit somewhat amusing, since we do not typically picture religious sisters on water skis!
Ministry of Mothers Sharing—MOMS
Sister Paula’s most treasured obedience was her five-year assignment to ministry in Mesa, Arizona, where she worked with children and families at St. Timothy’s parish, and eventually felt called to create Ministry of Mothers Sharing (MOMS). She learned a great deal about the gift of motherhood from the women she met: how much patience and generosity it takes to care for children, with all of the accompanying challenges. In the 6-8 week cohorts of group sharing and listening, Sister Paula witnessed so much growth in the mothers’ patience and devotion to their children, seeing them develop and respond. The mothers initiated new prayer rituals they had learned through the ministry and subsequently experienced growth within the whole family system. Sister Paula spent an additional five years at the Franciscan Renewal Center in Scottsdale continuing this work and made many lifelong friends including the co-authors of Ministry of Mothers Sharing.
From 1992-2012, Sister Paula became nationally known for the MOMS retreat ministry with women and families which assisted more than 500,000 mothers of all ages in the US, as they experienced transformation through teaching sessions held at parishes, in retreats and workshops focused on prayer, faith, ritual, spiritual gifts and friendship.
Part of the mission of the Ministry of Mothers Sharing, a national program and outreach ministry of St. Paul’s Monastery launched by Sister Paula, Vickie Jennett and Tricia Hoyt, was to help women enhance their prayer lives and find spiritual support and wisdom in a faith-sharing environment with other mothers. They learned that motherhood is a call to holiness, and even the small, sometimes tedious chores involved in raising children are “little acts of God.” Mothers came together to find community, which strengthened them in their roles to support and nurture their families.
Sister Paula continued to lead retreats back at home through the Benedictine Center until 2023, and has always encouraged lay people and employees to join the Benedictine Associates or Oblate programs and has supported them in these endeavors. The Oblate program is especially vital and thriving at St. Paul’s Monastery, attracting new candidates each year who are called to assist in the Sisters’ ministries and serve in different ways. Sister Paula is a great friend to many. She is also an avid book lover (sharing books with her friends!) and is always reading something new. Sister Paula will never stop learning and growing through her great Benedictine love of study.
During her time as Prioress of St. Paul’s Monastery (2014-2019) when Sister Paula led the leadership team and Monastic community through many important events and changes, she became even more devoted to the virtue of Wisdom in helping the Community make wise decisions for the future. She shared her love of Wisdom with the team through several books by Sister Irene Nowell, OSB. These books were studied by the Monastic Council and Benedictine Associates Committee. A favorite Wisdom quote became a traditional prayer for the Benedictine community:
I, Wisdom, am with you.
I am a light that will never grow dim.
Love me and you will see me,
Look for me and you will find me.
At the slightest indication of your desire for me,
I will make myself known to you.
Watch for me at the very start of what you are about,
And you will have no trouble.
During Sister Paula’s 68 years of creating and living Benedictine Spirituality according to the Rule of St. Benedict, she has experienced the Rule as a real guide to living with a wisdom perspective. “The Rule helped all of us try to make wise decisions for the advancement of our Benedictine Community and our personal spiritual journey home,” she says.
What is more delightful than the voice of the Lord calling to us? See how the Lord in his love shows us the way of life.
-Prologue, R.B. 19-20
